Aww, thank you! Very kind of you not to point out that I obviously got the "Update your status" field mixed up with you "Respond to friend's comment" field. :D
Think happy music - switch out the word "Grandma" with "Ex-husband" when singing "Grandma got run over by a reindeer". Hang in there, hope you worked it out so you get some time with the kinder as well. :)